Hello everyone!! A lot has been going on in our tiny little apartment this past month or so. Mostly Justin is the busy one – though he keeps us busier than ever too.
Justin has had two colds and a sinus infection since Christmas and is working (very painfully) on his last 4 baby teeth: the dreaded 2-year-molars. Yes, it’s “molar-mania” at the Owen household. We’ve had a few rough nights, and Dadda has been quite frazzled at the end of some of those tough days. We’ve gotten to the point with the teeth that we just let him roam the house with a bottle of cold milk to help keep him calm and give him something to chew on (this is favorable to chewing on Momma’s nipples). I, for one, cannot wait for Justin to be done teething. The drama ends sometime, right?
Besides everything I’ve already mentioned, Justin is growing like a weed. And not one of those puny dandelions. I’m thinking more the bamboo type. Strong, wild, and makes lots of noise in the wind. He’s nearly outgrown his size 3T clothes (he still has 2 months to go before he’s 2 years old!), and at this rate we’ll need a hammer to tap on his size 8 shoes. His hair is growing so fast, sometimes I think I’m raising a sheepdog (this is especially pronounced because he won’t let me cut his hair – I have to sneak in when he’s sleeping or catch him unawares). Plus, he’s got anywhere from 2-3 new words a day. My current favorite is “All gone!” which he happily pronounces when anything is empty. He does, however, get very angry when I tell him that “nerrs” are all gone (meaning momma is out of milk and he needs to go play/sleep/whatever).
That kid.
I think sometimes I’ll be nursing him until he’s 30. I just have to remind myself that most of his want to nurse all the time is because he’s teething – not because I’m an avoidant parent. I wonder sometimes though, when he wants to keep nursing after being latched on for more than 30 minutes. Seriously, I’m NOT a pacifier, and I’d really rather cuddle and I know he’d get as much or more out of that than just interacting with the boob. For now my plan is to start weaning as soon as he’s done teething. I’m just getting too worn of it and have started resenting it to a certain degree. I’m actually jealous of Matt’s ability to just cuddle up with Justin and take naps, watch tv, whatever. With me, it’s just nurse nurse nurse. We can tickle and wrestle and read books, but if I’m sitting down (ie. not a moving target), he wants to nurse.
In other news, after months of sleeping on, and then half-on his crib mattress on the floor, we finally got Justin his very own big boy bed. It’s really just a twin-size mattress laid on the floor in the same place as his old bed. 
He’s got his own pillow, and we used his old familiar crib bumper around the edge and added his fluffy “binkit” and he’s quite comfy. The first night he was up 4-5 times, but the next night and every night since (with the exception of maybe two bad teething nights) Justin has slept through the night for the first time since he was 4 months and one week old. He’s down between 8-10pm (when mommy works late, his bedtime is later ’cause he can’t fall asleep until Momma gets home), and doesn’t so much as stir until at least 5:30 or 6 am. And then, if he wants to cuddle in our bed with his dad (as he frequently does), I can climb into Justin’s bed and sleep better than on the couch! It’s AWESOME!!!! I’ll admit though, when I’m getting ready for work at 5am, I like our little “Cindy Lou Who” moments: I’ll be making my lunch and suddenly hear the soft tapping of the bedroom door being pushed open and the shuffle of footie pajamas coming down the hallway to the kitchen. I turn and there in the doorway is my little Justin, rubbing his eyes and creakily saying, “Momma?”
Justin’s favorite toys are his toy vacuum, Dusty the Talking Vacuum (which he calls, “Vack-ooom!” -
And his Play-Doh. Not so much the dough itself (which he pretty much just wants to put in his mouth – and really, who wouldn’t?), just the colorful jars. He stacks them, rolls them, tries to fit them all back in the box. He will spend a good 10 minutes of every hour sitting at the kitchen table organizing his Play-Doh. Then, of course, there’s He-man. There’s ALWAYS He-man. A Masters of the Universe toy goes with us everywhere we go. He knows more characters than most geeks, and can recognize them faster. And yes, he not only knows the difference between Battle-Cat (“Cat!”) and Cringer (“ckeegoo”), but the difference between Teela (“Tetta”) and the Sorceress (“So-ses”). Sad, but I knew before he was born that my little guy would be Geekimus-Maximus. I seriously considered buying the maternity tee I found that read in dot-matrix style text over the belly, “Geek Incubator”.
At the same time, Justin absolutely adores Church. He’s a BUSY boy, so it’s VERY hard for him to be still in Church. He prefers to move around, watching the service from many different angles. He’s started singing along with the Liturgy. If you’re ever in Church with us and hear Justin yell, “Loo!” he doesn’t have to go potty, he’s singing “Lord, Have Mercy!”. If you see/hear him say, “Fah-wah” and tap his chest with his fingertips, he’s actually trying to cross himself and say “In the Name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Ghost”. If you see him touch the floor and say, “eh-Gott!” he’s actually doing a metanya while saying, “Holy God, Holy Mighty, Holy Immortal”. Justin lights up when he is taken up to the chalice to take Communion. He opens his mouth wide, receives the Host, and proudly kisses the chalice. His current favorite Icon is the Icon of the Guardian Angel (“Angoh”) which he climbs up to at our Icon corner at home, points to and says, “Bess you, Angoh”, then kisses the icon “Pmwah!”. He also loves the Icon of the Theotokos (“Toekoke”).
One of my most favorite things that Justin does now is what I call the “Roll Call”. He will bounce around the house, run as fast as he can right into my legs and shout, “Momma!”, then turn and run as fast as he can right into Matt’s legs and shout, “Dadda!”. When we’re at Nanna and Poppa’s, he’ll do the same to them. When he’s really wound up, he’ll include his favorite familiar objects like the computer (“Pedoo”), the recliner (“Chayoh!”), or the bathtub (“Baff!”). He’ll also catch you in the shower, run up and point at the shower curtain and say, “Momma! Baff! Showw!”
He could give a rat’s patoot about numbers or counting, but has started showing some limited interest in letters. He recognizes some words and logos (the Target bullseye and the Mattel burst, for example). The Haggen grocery store sign, for Justin at least, means “Bagoo!” since we frequently get him a cheese bagel from there as a treat for behaving at the library.
Next on the agenda:
1. Potty training. A friend gave us an awesome potty chair a while back but Justin won’t let us put him on it without his diaper on, and he prefers to remove the little chamber pot in it since it’s apparently “not supposed to be there”. He hangs out on it while Matt or I are in the shower and plays with his bath toys. We just got him a Ducka potty seat that goes on the toilet itself to try, we’ll see how that goes. When it came I showed it to him, he pointed to the duck’s nose and said, “nose!”, pointed to the eyes and said, “Dats yo eye!”. Then I asked him, “Justin, what is this?!” and he looked at me and then at the seat and said very assuredly, “Hat!” At the same time, when he’s so much as wet he’ll retrieve a new diaper and tell you “AhWow” (meaning: water, “I’m wet”). So he’s aware, and he knows we go potty and we talk to him about it. I know he’ll get there eventually, but advice is always welcome.
2. Weaning. I’d love to throw an “All done nursing” party around his 2nd birthday.
3. Moving. Yup, as soon as we get our tax return, we’re packing our bags and getting a 2 bedroom apartment so Justin can have his own room (for his stuff, and soon after, his bed too). Part of the reason we got his big boy bed now was so he could get attached to it before we move. We’ll keep him in our room for the first month or two after the move and then hopefully start working him into his own room at night.





























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